I have known about Fleshlights for a while and had received glowing (Orgasmic?) reports about them from a friend so I decided to bite the bullet.
I'll be honest here. I'm a gay guy, and some of the openings just did not appeal to me at all, so I decided to go with the Stealth model. The internals I chose was the Wonder Wave, and the color was Ice. Ice to me was interesting as I could enjoy the sight of myself coming to climax, plus if I spent some quality time with friends then we both could enjoy the show.
Anyway - I finally recieved the package and opened it, washed it in warm water and left it there to get to err.. 'operating temperature'. Needless to say with the anticipation I was already at operating temperature
So with a quick dry off and some Wet Stuff I decided to give it a go.
The sensations were fun. I am of average size and uncut with a fairly loose foreskin. The fleshlight has sufficient tightness to keep the foreskin back so I could enjoy the other sensations on the glans. It took a little while to achieve climax but it was worth the wait.
Using a Fleshlight is very different from using a hand. With a hand you automatically adjust tightness and speed, but with the Fleshlight one can only adjust the speed - meaning that you are a little less in control than with just a hand.
The other thing I noticed was although the cap at the top could be tightened it was not airtight so there was a big of wheezing and hissing from the Fleshlight (Believe me - I normally do NOT expect to hear those sounds from a sex partner)
Anyway - I tries a couple of little experiments like wrapping sticky tape around the top and that did improve things after the interal pressure has equalised after inserting. The sensations was a bit more of a gripping and sucking feeling - until more air slipped in around the shaft. So I knew with my mods I was onto something.
Popping into a local hardware store I brought some of little irrigation joiners for garden watering systems (The 4mm units are perfect), and a length of poly tubing to fit.
Drilling a hole in the cap I superglued in the fitting and when dry I connected the hose.
Now with the top still sealed I gave it another try..
Perfection.. My sucking on the tube (Str8 guys - don't worry - there is a meter of tubing between your member and your lips
I found I could even just lie there quietly and by sucking and blowing effectively make the Fleshlight bring me to climax - all hands free (Might be an interesting mod for people with disabilities... ) Also could be very handy when you want a bit of fun time and your partner is in the 'Not Interested and Stop Squirming' mood too.
Anyway - Hope my experiences help other to get a Fleshlight and enjoy themselves. It is a fun toy for all guys regardless of sexualities too.
Take Care
Marc