If you’re thinking of buying a Fleshlight and are scanning through the forums to make your mind up, well just over a week ago I was doing the very same thing so hopefully my experience will make it easier for some of you. I’m going to be pretty honest because not everyone has, or wants, the same experience, so if my situation doesn’t match yours well there’s plenty more opinions, and options, to choose from.

It had been a long, long time since I’d had sex (terrible break-up) so I’d shied away from the scene neither picking-up or going out on dates; basically the thought of getting close to someone again filled me with dread. Anyway (years later) I went out and amazingly picked up this beautiful girl, then disaster! She might have been hot, wet and wild but despite her reassurances that it was fun, I felt like a cowboy who’d got throw off before I’d even started to enjoy the ride. Good sex is like trying to get a good job; you need the experience to get the position, not to mention also having to keep your skills up to date, and unless they want to spend the time and effort training you, you just don’t get a second chance.

I’d read articles about increasing staying power but, honestly, masturbating with your hand compared to the Fleshlight is like pedalling a push-bike compared to riding a motorcycle; it’s a lot of effort, you can’t go far, you feel like an loser, and the thrill of acceleration resides only in your imagination. Luckily I found the STU and it looked just like the solution I was after.

So I ordered the STU, pink lady, and there were no problems with payment; via credit card, or delivery; it was here in three days! The service was just excellent! Seriously the idea that sex-toys equal dodgy service did worry me but I received email confirmations, with answers to my questions, online order status, and being able to buy the brand from a company in Australia was very reassuring. These forums also added credibility to the product and its suppliers which is why I’ve written this to give back. When it arrived I washed it out, let it soak in hot water for about 15 mins, found a good movie, got the lube (which I’d also ordered: “Wet Stuff Gold”; it’s great!), put some music on, and got ready for what, to use the lingo, was my first “FLight”.

I was pretty nervous as it was a lot of money to spend on something unseen and unknown, but the texture of the “skin” and the sturdiness of the case did reassure me. Well, this is the chase if you decided to cut to it, the feel was simply incredible; hot, wet and wild but totally under my control and there for my satisfaction. The prior “soaking” in hot water really gave it a great sense of realism, and is well worth the extra prep time. I would describe my size as average; approx 4 inches width and 6 inches long, which meant that the “fit” was just perfect; tight enough for overall stimulation and with enough give for that flesh sensation. I felt barely able to resist containing myself and after several pumps, and adjusting the end-cap (full suction i.e. on tight: works a treat), let myself go. Oh how I’d missed that post-orgasmic bliss that I’d lost along with my sex life. Yes I’m now one very happy cowboy; the Fleshlight STU is as much about stimulation as it is about simulation and is exactly what I was looking for.

If, like me, you put a lot of time and effort into working out to look and feel good, here’s another exercise to add to your routine; after all what’s the point of finally getting the girl if you can’t give her a totally enjoyable, and orgasmic, experience. So if it’s been a while, and you wish to get back in the saddle, well I suggest you buy the Fleshlight STU, then hold on, enjoy the ride, and learn to hold on some more. Now, hopefully, it won’t be too long before there’s a girl by my side wondering how lucky she is to have finally caught a stud like me. Sure that sounds like bravado, and until my first FLight I’d have thought such a dream was bullshit, but I know now that once I’ve got my confidence back from regaining some competence under my belt, it’ll definitely happen. Besides, considering how good this feels, I’m quite prepared to wait until someone really special comes along. In fact, quite a long time, a very, very long time.

welcome to the forums Cowboy. Great testimonial. Thanx for the props.

Ive moved this topic to the testimonials forum so everyone can find it where it should be

Nice testimonial cowboy. It's great to hear the STU has done so much for you, a bit of confidence in bed spreads a looong way.
If you're happy now, just wait a few months. With a bit of practice you'll be pumping away in your Fleshlight for just about as long as you want - it'll increase your stamina exponentially.

Can somebody put that into smaller paragraphs? Gives me a headache trying to read it

I’ve been reading up and experimenting with the end-cap and found that having it almost off is more like actual sex and having the end-cap sealed, thus creating the suction, is more like a blowjob. With this in mind I’ve found that I’ve been able to get into some hard-core deep thrusting with the cap open, and then once I’ve cum, screwing the cap on tight for that heavenly “sucked dry” sensation. (Hmm, best of both worlds!)

Thanks for the welcome Fazman.

Thanks FLN; a couple of months of building up my confidence and competence means I’m hoping to have myself one wild Christmas!

Sorry adzy, I’m a forum noob, hope this is better.

glad you found out about the cap, thats exactly as it should feel.

Cheers Much better

I've found that masturbating with your hand is like starting up an old lawnmower, you have to keep pulling away at it and hope it starts Whereas the comparison from a pushbike to a motorbike is describing the ride itself once you get going.

Interesting that you use music - Barry White?

Welcome Cowboy. It gets better yet, with more practice, and practice is FUN isn't it?

Yee-haw! Good testimonial. Welcome to the forums.
Can't go wrong with the Fleshlight staff. And they aren't seedy sex industry people either!

Hear, hear! Most friendly and helpful gang you can find "in a day's march".

I can't buy from Faz Pash and Spool, 'cos they are too far away from me; just wish they were trading in the UK.