I'm still a virgin (26) and although I've had a chance a while back to get rid of it I bailed because I didn't think I'd be able to last long. Weeks later, the relationship ended. If I'd known that prior I would've taken a test drive - turn the ignition, make sure the indicators work, that sorta thing.

So yesterday I got the fleshlights (Raven Riley and Mouth STU) and tonight I finally convinced myself to try the STU when I thought I was in the mood. I follow the instructions making sure not to slip up, turn on the hot water and let it turn itself to a bitch-in-heat, then took it out, lubed it & myself then and took it into my bathroom which is as small as the ones found on airplanes - convenient. After taking my clothes off my temperature changed dramatically and I felt like I was about to flog the dolphin near the icebergs of Antartica

Unfortunately by that stage my friend lost interest - I tried to pysch him up "C'mon you can do this! Just last long enough for at least 1 round". The bell rang, he still wasn't ready but my patience had run out and threw him into the ring irregardless of how he felt. I threw him a Zoo Weekly, he didn't like that, I gave him my temporary visual aid - a 15sec repeating pixelated bj but that just made him more depressed. After about 2min he finally stood up, looked his opponent in the eye (or mouth) and attacked but 30 secs later he was left gasping for air, wimpered like a punching bag

I'm not entirely sure what happened in the end, I used enough lube, it wasn't hurting him and I don't think he managed to achieve a knockout. I've rounded it down to a few possibilities

1. Water felt like it was trapped in the canal despite shaking therefore I didn't feel as much as I should (small possibility)
2. It was too friggin cold in the bathroom! (big possibility)
3. Lost the mood (also another big possibility)

I'll try again tomorrow hopefully with better results or wait until my visual aid arrives from the US (currently I don't have anything aside from Zoo Weekly and 15sec vids). Zoo Weekly just didn't work at all!

glad to hear your gave it a try already adzy. Id say u may be too used to the alternative. Give it a few more goes and you'll rise to the occasion every time

The alternative being real sex? I wish I could afford it

lol nah, mrs palmer

Hmm... sounds like there were quite a few factors coming into play there. Water left inside the canal is not often a problem - at worst it'd just thin the lube a bit. I rarely do more than a quick shake to remove water from the inside of my Fleshy before starting, sometimes it can prove beneficial leaving it damp as it helps the lube stay nice and wet.

A cold bathroom with poor visual aid sounds like the problem to me. Regardless of whether or not I could get it up under those conditions, I wouldn't want to. Any kind of Flight would have been pretty unrewarding in that kind of atmosphere.
And I can't blame you for not feeling anything looking at Zoo - the models they get in there are hardly worth a second glance. They all look too plastic.

Give it a bit of time, a good setting and the STU will knock your socks off.

Welcome to the forum!

I couldn't function in a cold environment - I like my comforts too much. Not keen on cramped space, either.
Add the absence of decent (wrong word) visual aids; no wonder he went on strike!

She's become pretty predictable lately which is why I needed one of the other 2 alternatives

Thanks for the welcome

Instead of decent visual aids I had 'descent' visual aids. Close, but completely opposite meanings. My DVDs won't arrive until sometime next week

Also my bathroom is actually the size of 2 or maybe 3 airplane bathrooms but still very small like a hallway and not exactly a pleasant environment (I do keep the place clean though)

Might have to buy a heater/use it in the shower/during the day instead or something. The house gets alarmingly cold during the night (I don't have sufficent carpets or insulation), maybe I'll keep my socks on next time

Aha! So I do need to wear my socks

"a 15sec repeating pixelated bj"
doesn't sound too inspiring.

Sometimes my fella isn't in much of a mood either. Well, usually I can get him in the mood but if he's not in the zone he'll soften up, especially in hands free methods. It's quite normal. Just keep trying and you will reap the benefits. I flighted before I lost my virginity and I went over an hour and I still didn't ejaculate for my first time so it definitely helps with stamina. So don't have to worry about not lasting long!

yep stick with it adzy.
in time you will not be able to get enough lol.
your introducing him to something wonderfully new so no doubt he gonna be a bit scared at first
but take it from a happy flighter once you and the little guy get things happening he will be up and ready soon as you flick the top off the lube bottle lol

Used the fleshlight for the 2nd time today, well first actually with Raven Riley. I had the visual aid (laptop+dvd), headphones just in case somebody can hear it (you never know with duplexes) and a rather warm bathroom this time around - getting towards Summer so there's actually hot nights. It was hard to get in first, I had to wait until Johnson was ready (only took about 20sec when I was watching the opening credits) and then proceed - but that's the way it is in reality anyway unless the girl has her mouth open, lol. Didn't last very long, maybe 2min? I managed to finish with the rest going into the small cap so cleanup was pretty easy. Anyway I was glad to get it over with actually (didn't really want to be there all night) so now I don't have to worry about urges for a while. Will probably do it once or twice a week if I need to switching between the STUPM & RR.

I should probably put a bookmark on where I'm up to on the DVD so I'm not seeing the same footage. The DVD I got today goes for 2hr 15min which should get me through about 50 sessions not including replay value, lol. + I've got that other DVD arriving soon so that'll be good for a year's supply

I used the 1 hand on fleshlight method, wasn't that bad really. I think the handsfree method are for those who actually want to simulate real sex rather than just having a quickie

glad to hear it was better for u this time round

Used for the 7th night in a row now, 2nd time with the STU. I still think the STU is a little bit too big so ejaculation actually takes a bit longer unless I'm constantly pumping away. However I'm learning to control myself by slowing down if I feel like I'm about to cum, wait a few seconds, then continue. It seems quite easy really though when you're doing it for real you've probably got to put up with teasing and a different emotion than "Okay, lets get this done with". When I do encounter this, I'll make sure I use the fleshlight before the date to avoid the added pressure Like Ben Stiller said in 'Something about Mary': "Holy shit! I've been going out with a loaded gun"

I'm glad I bought this product and thank you for reducing the amount of time I spent looking for porn (which is actually good so I can do other stuff)

Well, I am glad to hear the strike is well and truly over. Seven nights in a row *MUST* mean that you are getting some fun from the FleshLight. Yes, "edging" will lead to more and more control. Even so, you will almost certainly find that on some occasions, the FL just takes over, and you lose all control.

Mind you, that happens with a real woman too, probably more often. I found that with my first FL, and now with that and the other two as well...

Glad to hear you've really "joined the club"

Regards, jonnyW

good to hear you're enjoying it alot more now adzy

Hey Adzy welcome to the forum and thanks for posting your testimonial.

It does sound like there are a lot of extra pressures and variables, time constraints and other things that are not allowing you the full freedom with the Fleshlight. But you seem used to overcoming them so stick with it, but do try to take some of these pressures off.

From what I can gather, you are still using the Fleshlight whilst in the bathroom? Is there any reason why you can't get comfy in your bedroom?

One other thing I have not heard you mention is use of the end cap. Do you feel it is there to catch the finished result and allow easy clean up? In other words I want to know have you used either of these inserts with the end cap completely OFF? This will take away the vacuum suction and also start to make the stu bumps or the raven riley wonderfulwaves do their amazing dance up and down your shaft. Thus giving you a much better/different experience.

Keep 'up' the good work and great to have another member and his input on the forum

Pash
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Hey Pash,

I don't have a problem with time restraints but I prefer to use it just before I hit the shower and each time I try to make it last longer. The reason why I still continue to use it in the bathroom is because its the easiest to cleanup and I've got a good setup there in regards to laptop placement, easy access to sink, cleaning etc. I suppose I could use it in the spare bedroom but I'm one of those neat freaks who's always careful about what they touch There's also that duplex house problem too if I used either of the bedrooms as sound travels very easily through the walls.

Haven't actually tried using it with the cap completely off, usually its about half unscrewed. I'll give it a shot next time I use it Tonight's session is already over, lol