Firstly, to anyone that is a bit disappointed by the sensation when they first start using a Fleshlight, make sure you persist because boy are you in for a surprise.
When I got home from picking my package up from the Post Office I was a bit surprised by the size. The only full length video I had seen with some form of reference so you could take a guess at the size was of a woman using it on a man. In her hands, the fleshlight looked massive and cumbersone, IT ISN'T. Size wise, the case and sleeve are perfect, they aren't too small that they don't convey as sense of mass to the user but they are still small enough to allow for easy manipulation during use. Before I forget, the service I got from Fazman was excellent, beyond expectations even.
On initial touch, after washing, the fleshlight feels a bit tacky due to the softness of the material used to make it. It's only when you start applying lube to the fl that you realise just how amazingly realistic the material is. It's at this stage that you realise that the word "flesh" really deserves to be in the product name.
Before my first use I followed everyones advice and warmed up the insert. On the second use I didn't bother, trust me, it is definitely better spending the time warming it up. If you warm the insert you only really feel the sensation, whereas if you don't, the coldness of the insert is rather intrusive. OK, so now the Fleshlight is all prepared and so am I. BTW, make sure you use PLENTY of lube, stopping to top up kills the mood a bit. I initially tried using the fleshlight using the classic move your arm type motion and it just didn't do it for me. Sorry, but there is something in my brain that says "ok, I'm getting my jollies but I'm having to move the hands for it to happen". There was something much too familiar about it, so I decided to try the "under the mattress method". What a change. All my body had to do was go on instinct, it didn't need any real thought so I was able to separate the effort from the sensation.
Now to the sensation. Before I started, I was expecting a sensation that would blow my mind. Fortunately the Wonder Wave is more subtle than that. It's more of a gentle slope building up rather than a flooding of the nerve endings. It was at about this time that I thought "hmm, this is a little less than what I expected" but I decided to persist. After a few minutes things built up to the big surprise, the orgasm. Things built up so subtely that I was completely unaware by the strength of my orgasm. It's been a long while since I've experienced one that has caused my stomach muscles to tighten up and almost start spasming.
Now, I've tried numerous things, including e-stim (look it up if you don't know what it is
) and it is by far the most powerful "finish" I have experienced. Also, clean up after some methods made me feel dirty, but cleaning the insert is so easy that you don't really notice it. Besides, I was normally in too blissful a state to care.Just some final notes for people thinking about ordering and want to know about any tricks or trip ups.
1) Make sure you use plenty of lube.
2) Don't expect the earth to move on the first stroke. Be patient (If I could remeber the saying, I'd use it now)
3) Try a hands off method, whether it be the shoe method or the mattress method (it makes the whole process feel more natural)
4) Have something solid to place your weight on straight after "end game" in case your knees get wobbly
5) Don't over do it. Yes, it does feel good, but the human body is only capable of so much
Finally, I would like to how impressed I was with the service that I received.
(Sorry about the "War and Peace" length of my post, but there's so much to rave about
) P.S. I refuse to accept any responsibility for any spelling mistakes contained within the above rant
P.P.S. Get well soon Pashy
